Syrian family settling in Lexington amid backlash


By Morgan Eads - The Lexington Herald-Leader



LEXINGTON (AP) — When Rama Al Najjar was 12 years old, she was bandaging bullet wounds and scrubbing blood from doorways so the blood wouldn’t attract Syrian military attention.

Now she’s 16, and she’s navigating a different challenge: settling into an American state where politicians have announced their intentions to keep out families like hers.

Kentucky has the eighth-highest population of Syrian refugees in the country, according to the Refugee Processing Center. Of 2,260 Syrian refugees living in the United States, 101 are in Kentucky: 11 in Lexington and 90 in Louisville.

Rama and her family are from Homs, Syria, where some of the fiercest fighting in the Syrian civil war has occurred. They moved to Lexington about three months ago from a refugee camp in Amman, Jordan, where they’d lived for about three years. Although the family’s new home brings relief from war, the threats and unease aren’t over, as Rama’s experiences show.

Rama is confused about the recent backlash against Syrian refugees.

“I don’t know why people are afraid of refugees; we’ve escaped a war,” Rama said. “We just want to live in a free country. Why are people afraid of us?”

Politicians across the United States have announced plans to block Syrian refugees from entering the country in the wake of news reports that at least one man involved in November’s French terrorist attacks had posed as a Syrian transplant.

“The recent terrorist attacks in Paris serve as a warning to the entire civilized world that we must remain vigilant,” Gov.-elect Matt Bevin told The Associated Press recently. “This is why I am joining with other governors across the country in opposing the resettlement of Syrian nationals.”

States have little control. Once refugees arrive in the United States after “stringent security checks,” they are protected by federal law and the Constitution, a State Department representative said.

Refugees are among the most committed students, said Levi Evans, Rama’s English as a second language teacher at Bryan Station High School.

Evans has taught dozens of refugees from countries around the world.

“By letting students like these in that are smart and ready to work, we may be creating the next Einstein,” Evans said. “It would not surprise me a bit if when I’m old and dying of cancer or something that Rama would be the one operating on me.”

The transition was difficult for Rama and her family when they arrived, even before the attacks in Paris made people wary of Syrian refugees. None spoke English and they had little knowledge of American culture.

Rama is the only Bryan Station student who speaks Arabic. During her first two days at school, she couldn’t talk to anyone.

Rama felt alone, and she was afraid she wouldn’t learn because she couldn’t understand her teachers.

“I cried and cried and cried, because everything was different,” Rama said through a translator. “But the third or fourth day I started thinking, ‘Well, I have to adapt to this new environment; I have to learn.’”

That’s when Rama met special education teacher Shatha Shakir, who speaks Arabic.

She has helped Rama “a lot, a lot, a lot” as she works to understand her peers and teachers, Rama said.

Shakir said Rama is learning English rapidly and has started helping some Spanish speakers in her English as a second language class.

Education is a top priority for Rama, who wants to be a doctor.

That goal began on the streets of Homs where the civil war boiled over to envelope thousands of civilians.

When she was 12 years old, Rama dragged her bleeding neighbor, a boy her age, into her house so she could bandage him.

The boy had been shot in the leg by the Syrian military as he stood near his house, Rama said.

She cared for him until he could be taken to a clinic. He survived.

Not long after that, she helped a man who had been shot, she said.

Both times, she remembers scrubbing the blood from her family’s doorway so militants wouldn’t notice and target the family.

Rama worries that Syria doesn’t have enough doctors to help the injured. She remembers seeing people bleeding and dying without aid.

“It was no freedom, it was no mercy for the people over there,” Rama said.

Maher Al Najjar decided about three years ago to take Rama, her two brothers and her mother, Helal Sousi, out of Syria.

They made the six-hour journey to the Jordanian border, but the frightened family was turned away.

A guard told them they couldn’t pass because they were from Homs, the site of the most violent fighting, Rama said.

That night, a different guard let the family through the border, she said.

When they got to Amman, the family had immediately applied to be resettled, and after about three years, the United Nations Refugee Agency contacted her father about moving to the United States, Rama said.

Syria hasn’t always been the violent place that it is now, Rama said. She remembers playing in the streets with Reem and her other friends when she was young.

When asked whether she wanted to return to Syria someday, Rama didn’t hesitate. She wants to go back.

“I still have hope,” she said.

By Morgan Eads

The Lexington Herald-Leader

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